Love For Fools, Whitney Houston, Heartbreak Hotel, Infidelity, Love, Relationships

Love For Fools

You warned me. And I’ve been thinking about you. You said, this is not the man you want to love. This is not the man you want to announce to the world loves you. This[…]

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Good At Goodbye, The prodigal wife, Power of Goodbye, Madonna

Good At Goodbye

It wasn’t supposed to happen this way. When I left, when I said goodbye, you knew I would come back. That I would crawl back like a prodigal wife who learns the error of her[…]

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I'm Curious, Love, Lovemaking, Relationships

I’m Curious

Our hearts have turned into small African drums. We are in your living room trying to catch our breath. Words fail us, so we watch the glistening saliva on our lips as it dries out[…]

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Before and after, breakup, love, relationships

Before And After

I hold a wedding invitation card in my hands. A man I know is about to get married. Fancy that! Just a month ago, I held a steak down with a fork, cut out a[…]

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When Love Left, Divorce, Marriage, Suits,

When Love Left

Chances, if you are married, are that one day you will sit in a courtroom next to your lawyer – who will possibly be a man. Across from you, facing you, eyes unwavering, gaze steely,[…]

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Let It Hurt, Heartbreak, Love, Relationships

Let It Hurt

You are a human being. What this means? You are made of flesh, bone and blood. All these are secured underneath a layer of skin. The blood ensures that oxygen is transported to your heart[…]

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Behind The Closed Door

Behind The Closed Door

Domestic violence is a preserve of closed doors. Both perpetrator and victim will always strive to keep that door firmly shut. Do you remember that video of a man who slapped his pregnant wife in[…]

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